Monday, June 27, 2011

Something Real On Cheating

So at some point in all of our lives we've all had to deal with cheating, wether it was you doin the cheating, the one being cheated on, or the one somebody is cheating with we all know how the story goes. This is how I make some kind of logic out of all the nonsense and noise.

First off, in order to keep your partner happy and home you have to satisfy and stimulate them in a physical, emotional and mental kind of way. Men are more on the physical while women are on the emotional and intellectual stimulation.

I'm going to start off with the fellas, I understand the need to be staisfied and if a woman is uncapable of providing that satisfaction you will proceed to the next. What I don't understand is why you fucking your sideline ho with no condom? Why are ya'll sounding like Usher singing 'Confessions'? Ya'll trippin with that shit. You should always keep home happy and if you're not happy at home leave. Why would you fuck a bitch that gave you the pussy without thinkin about it the first time never mind twice, and if she has no problem fucking up your home then you already know the type of bitch she is. Ya'll put too much trust in these hookers thinkin they weren't gonna tell ya wife/girl/baby mama or their girlfriends who in turn told the whole city. Wisen up man. Keep ya home happy and only give them other bitches dick. Keep your hoes in check and your indiscretions private and you'll save yourself alot of drama. PS: always keep up on your lies because women don't forget shit especially if it was supsect as soon as it left your mouth.

Ladies, now if your man takes care of home meaning your kids are taken care, your bills are paid, you stay fly and he makes you feel like his only what is the big deal? A man is going to be a man and they will step out in some point in their lives but be angry, upset, fuck his face/head up and let him know he fucked up. Make him think about what the hell he did. You have two choices allow him to stay and forgive him or put his ass out and move to the next one. Most of ya'll will allow him to stay and be like fuck it and won't even make him pay for his dumbness. Just remember your intuition is your guide and if your heart is telling you he fucked up most of the time he did, and will eventually tell on himself.

Love is a give and take type of deal, you'll give and the other take or you'll take while the other gives. Either way always make life giving decisions and choose what battles are worth fighting. Easier said then done but a smart woman will know when she has a good man and vice versa. Trust and communication go hand in hand and without one your relationship will be destined to fail. Just be smart enough to trust yourself before another and it will never steer you wrong.


Stay tuned for the next topic: baby daddy/baby mama drama

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